Seeing this community come together for my son, Xander, has meant more than I can put into words. Your generosity, prayers, messages, and shares have carried us through some incredibly overwhelming moments.
I wanted to share a meaningful update.
When my sister-in-law first created this fundraiser, our intention was to raise funds for a support dog. After deep research, we realized the time, travel, and extensive training required—especially needing to go to California—made it impractical for where Xander is right now in his care.
As many of you know, Xander is navigating multiple complex conditions, including Type 1 diabetes, stiff person syndrome, hip dysplasia (with surgery ahead), GI dysmotility, and scoliosis. As this journey continues, new layers of care and support keep emerging.
Before moving forward with hip surgery, Xander will attend a four-day intensive through the Upledger Institute (with a partial scholarship) in the Bahamas this summer. It integrates craniosacral, saltwater, and dolphin-accompanied therapy. Because many of his conditions impact the nervous system, this approach feels aligned in supporting his body more holistically.
We are hopeful for what this next step may offer him.
As his care evolves, so do the costs. While the GoFundMe reflects our original goal ($16K, now $18K), our actual needs are significantly higher and continue to grow. The platform doesn’t always reflect that clearly, so we wanted to share transparently.
If you feel called to support, share, or pray, it truly means so much:
👉 https://gofund.me/44952efe1
You can also support us by supporting Jacqui’s services during this time.
Thank you for being part of his circle of support.
With gratitude,
Jacqui, Lloyd, Xander & Sebastian
